I am who i am! I have Emotional detachment,Alexithymia and Congenital insensitivity to pain (CIP)!As you can see my bio and my blog i have nothing to hide and i prefer to be honest (i would like to get the same from you)! 1)Emotional detachment refers to the inability of a person to fully engage with feelings of their own or those of others. It may interfere with a persons physical, psychological, emotional, and social development. However, being able to disconnect from ones feelings may be helpful for people experiencing stressful situations. 2)Alexithymia is a broad term to describe problems with feeling emotions.However, a person with alexithymia might personally experience the following in social contexts: - anger -difficulty reading faces - discomfort - emptiness - increased heart rate - lack of affection 3)Congenital insensitivity to pain (CIP), also known as congenital analgesia, is one or more rare conditions in which a person cannot feel (and has never felt) physical pain.~ So, before i tell you the must-knows of the master-slave relationship, lets just freshen up on what it is. Basically, master-slave relationships are when one person in the relationship serves another.To make it sound easier, its two people where one person, the master, owns the other, the slave. Many people are shocked by master-slave relationships, but theyre completely consented to and designed by both people in the relationship. Domina and slave relationship ... ~ This relationship is based on a dominant and a submissive. Therefore, for a slave, there are a couple of absolute rules. These are some of the core rules you must follow.Firstly, you worship your master in every way. Secondly, you must always be ready to please your master. Thirdly, your head must be bowed down in the presence of your master. Lastly, you can never look in the eyes of your master without permission. ~ Just like a parent has the last word while raising their children, a master always has the last word in the master-slave relationship.The master will want to think of you as their property they own you. So, you must take care of them physically, spiritually, mentally, and emotionally at all times. Always be ready to serve them. ~~Before entering a master-slave relationship, you need to think carefully about it. Its not for the faint of heart, and its definitely not for everyone.~~ I'm turned on by A combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S) My role is Dominant I am seeking A lifetime relationship (LTR) I live the lifestyle 24/7 Experience level Expert Things to consider! ~"~ Some Dominants like to build relationships slowly, while others like to get straight to the kinky stuff. Neither way is right or wrong, but there will be a way that works best for you. Make certain you are generally in agreement on this, and that you are comfortable with any compromise you decide to make. ~"~ If you are unlucky, you may meet a Dominant who claims to know what hes doing, even though he doesnt. Some inexperienced Doms think admitting their lack of experience will make them seem less Domly. Knowing about safety procedures, and demonstrating your knowledge by talking about them before you play, will help to identify Doms who do this. A Dominant may have many years of experience, but that doesnt necessarily mean hes safe to play with. If his subs have never complained about his lack of skill, he has no reason to know hes doing anything wrong. If you seek a GENUINE domina i am here ,if you seek a fake platonic and fugitive experience i am not the one for you . ~``~ I do receive personal enjoyment when i dominate....... ~``~ Its all about power and control than sex........ ~``~ I usually stay emotionally detached and mysterious ....... ~``~ I do not offer oral sex or intercourse....... ~``~ Pushing or stretching a submissives limits is my joy........ ~``~ Depersonalization is what i like ........ ~``~ I adore a strong physiological bond ....... ~``~ I am a a person who exercises control .. having power and influence is a must for me........ *~* My 'ways'' involves getting pleasure from inflicting pain, suffering, or humiliation ...... Top 9 rules for a slave 1) Use a polite and subservient tone! ->Show your humility,politeness and submission with your words..it will start the interaction on the right foot. 2)Avoid rude words(profanity)! -> I bet u won't use the '' F'' word in a business meeting(or if u meet one of the royals)!Be on your best behavior. 3)Be concise! ->Be brief, say what you want using a small amount of words while still being polite and humble to avoid wasting dommina's time! 4)Be precise and inclusive ! 5)Don't be manipulative ! ->Acting up or being ''annoying'' in the hope that Mistress will get angry and humiliate you via emails is manipulation...experienced dommina's can recognise this ''brat'' behavior from miles away and that will backfire labeling you as a ''time waster'' and you will be ignored/blocked. 6)A picture with your your penis says ''I AM A DICK'' ! -> Your private parts should be kept private until Mistress ask to see .. 7) Do your Homework! ->Mistresses spend a lot of time writing and offer all the info in her blogs/websites/bio ...If u spent time to read what she's all about is also a sign for her..a sign of respect and that your intentions are more than just seeking attention. 8)Express Yourself! -> What's special about you?Give some basic info about u and your fetish! 9)You must never show disrespect towards your Goddess in any way no matter where you are in their presence or not.(never use words such us hun,babe,lovely,etc...) ~ Being a professional Dominatrix serves as an education. There is no university that could have afforded me what I have learned about human behavior and psychology, and first hand, as the vocation of Dominatrix has. ~ New clients- I wish they better knew that there are people who enter the vocation with no care about the quality of the experiences being facilitated.Its too easy to put up a social media profile and/or site and refer to oneself as a Dominatrix while having little to no experience or care for the art form. Its just about easy money (they find very quickly theres nothing easy about it if they genuinely engage the modality and this is where many leave the vocation). ~ The vocation has become overrun and over saturated with what I call tourists (fake doms) in most markets. Tourists are people who come in for a short time (two or three years or far less) and leave before they really begin to learn a more complex understanding of the craft. Hence my quoting at times- There are many artists while theyre are few who master the art. ~ Providers who remain for many years and who invest in the various skill sets (including a vast array of psychological aspects) understandably gain awareness that the tourists do not. ~I work a lot on what I do. Preparing for sessions. Planning sessions. Buying equipment for specific sessions. Keeping my overall image. Theres so much that goes into this. No one wakes up and the next morning can be like, Oh, Im a dominatrix. Come to my dungeon. That does not exist. ~Its important to note that professional dominatrixes dont have intercourse with their paying subs. ~Prior to visiting a professional, youll most likely fill out an intake form that outlines everything you do and dont want to do (and are and arent okay with). When it comes time to actually have your session, youll be told how to address the dom, what to do upon entering, and any notes involving your appearance . ~Sometimes, advanced sessions have no safe words, but thats something they consent to, first-timers will absolutely use stop and go words (safe words). ~Ultimately, it doesnt matter what you look like or what you do for a living or how old are you .All I care about is your behaviour, your manners, and your ability to follow instructions. ~Since i had lots of fake subs i become more strict with my meetings .Only loyal members/pets may have the honour to meet me in real and i must say i do prefer the real meetings 100% more than online sessions. One of the biggest misconceptions is dominatrix is seen as a sex worker .Professional dominatrixes do not have sex with clients . Ever. Period.